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Dealing with divorce: a child’s guide

by Jeremy Zitter

( Family )

If your parents are divorced or in the process of getting a divorce, you may be concerned with the effects this might have on you. And you should be. Studies show that children of divorce have considerably greater risk of experiencing uhh … “psychological issues” compared with children who live in a stable two-parent environment.
Here [...]

Not in my nature

by Jeremy Zitter

( Life and Nature )

The other day I ran into a colleague, and while we were doing our post-summer-chitchat-thing, she told me she had spent the better part of her summer volunteering as a wilderness ranger in the Sierra National Forest, an experience that involved hiking and working in some of the most remote and picturesque parts of California:

But [...]

Amusement-phobic, redux

by Jeremy Zitter

( Death )

A few months ago, I wrote a post about my (ir?)rational fear of amusement-park rides (and one ride, in particular), a fear that has followed me through childhood and teenhood and young adulthood and into my thirties. And while I’m not afraid of all rides, I generally stay away from the ones with height requirements. [...]

A cry for help

by Jeremy Zitter

My name is Jeremy, and I’m an addict.
I tried to deny this fact as long as humanly possible, making excuses, constructing elaborate justifications. But I continued to feed my addiction, and now I’ve lost any ability to control it.
My problem began when I watched the first DVD of the television show Freaks and Geeks about [...]

If memory serves…

by Jeremy Zitter

I’m interested in how and why our memories visit us—and in the many cues, visual or otherwise, that help us remember. Photographs are especially interesting (and obvious) memory cues: after all, in their uncompromising and authoritative retelling of the past, they are completely unlike memories, which are shaky, uncertain. Photographs exist to tell us, “No, [...]